So I’ve been
reminiscing lately, thinking about all that transpires in a classroom between
Thanksgiving and Winter break.
It’s such a jam-packed time, there’s so much you have to accomplish. Grading, assessments, report cards, not
to mention keeping up with all the stuff you usually do on a regular
basis. All this is coupled with
the fact that the last place you want to be is at work and kids are crazy
during holidays. Any
holidays. They go insane. Then you go insane. And this happens:
This is my #1
tip for not going insane yourself during the holidays:
Make sure to
overemphasize the fact that you expect rational behavior.
I know this sounds super awful of me, but here’s how I make it
happen. I’ll print out strips of
paper that say “POLAR EXPRESS” or “HOLIDAY PARTY” or something like that,
whatever is the theme of the season.
Then I have my kiddos earn letters with good behavior. When I catch them doing the right
thing, or going above and beyond, or showing any kind of self-control, I tell
them to color in a letter. When
all the letters are colored in, they get to participate in the
party/movie/whatever you do the day before the break for your kids to do while
you finish report cards. Gosh,
that sounds harsh now that I wrote it out, but it works.
Here’s my favorite
example of this at work.
I did a train unit
to lead into a Polar Express (here is a little part of it!) unit for a few years. My first year trying this out, it was fantastic. Like, FANTASTIC. I felt like a genius. But despite the greatness of what was
happening, my kids were getting a little out of control. Can you blame them? It was almost Christmas. That’s when I came up with the “earn
the party” idea. Worked like a
charm.
But there was this
one student (I mean, there were a lot of them, but this one sticks out), this
one that was just not going to get on board. I kept giving him little reminders, “If you’re going to keep
acting a fool, this is going to be the consequence.” I guess he thought I was bluffing, but I was not. Weeks later, when the time came for my
class to join the one across the hall to watch The Polar Express, he did not
have the quota of letters earned.
Lo and behold, I was not bluffing.
He was astounded, and that quickly turned to anger. But I was not backing down. I’m tough. That was one of the most intense expressions of anger I’ve
ever witnessed. He spent about 30
minutes growling at me from his desk, then he put his head inside his backpack
for a while, and growled from there.
Eventually, he was ready to talk about it.
“I
want my Hawaiian Punch back,” he said.
“I’m
not sure I understand,” I replied.
I had no clue what this meant.
Maybe
Hawaiian Punch is a slang term I haven’t picked up yet.
“I
brought Hawaiian Punch for the party.
I want it back,” said through gritted teeth.
“Ah,
ok. Tell me why.”
“If
I’m not going to the party, it’s not going to the party.”
“Fair
enough, you can have it back.” I
think that’s pretty reasonable. I
liked his logic, and he explained it well. So I went with it.
I tried the “earn
the party” tactic again for the end of the year party. Guess who was the first to earn all
their letters…
Good luck to you
all, I hope you survive the season!!!
Jodie